Tis the Season

If your under unbelievable stress because of the season. Take a step back and reevaluate your life. You don’t have to live up to anyone’s expectations. The season is really supposed to be about spending time with friends and family. This means enjoying each other. The present thing is a commercialization of the season. Too many people have forgotten what the holidays are supposed to be about.

This might allow you to start to get some breathing room. This is about creating your own traditions. It supposed to be fun! Not stressful! If your family is all about the presents and gifts that okay. This is not a judgement! The holidays have basically been hijacked by the retailers with their marketing campaigns to guilt you to buy.

Some families are in different financial situations. Some haven’t noticed a change in theirs. If you have been hit hard by finances where your holding on by a shoe string. Your priorities are still in survival mode. Many people are just trying to keep a roof over their heads. A nice way to celebrate the season might be to play board games this season. Some of you might not have a clue what a board game is. Reading a book that embraces the season might be a nice choice for the family or if your solo. See no cost ideas. It doesn’t have to be about spending money and it shouldn’t be!

As we get closer to the Solstice and the Holiday Season, please just enjoy your family and friends. Share food or time with each other. If you enjoy food, just take time to enjoy the process of creating the food. It’s also a good time for family to each prepare part of the meal or making cookies or deserts together. Take time to enjoy eating together. If your thing is to watch a seasonal movie together then go for it.

Wishing you a warm and loving holiday.

Penny J. (MN, USA)

Raven Hawke, Llc

http://www.ravenhawke.net

info@ravenhawke.net

 

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Are You A Whole Person or A People Pleaser?

We currently have a world where it seems like the inmates of an insane asylum are running this planet. Do you constantly look over your shoulder figuratively as well as literally? Almost as if you don’t somehow live up to someone elses standards you will be discovered to be somehow lacking! Are you living your life or just going through the motions? Do you even know who you are?

What does it mean to be a whole person! It means that you’re not perfect, you are exactly as nature intended you to be. It is those flaws that make you who you are! When you don’t have all that pressure to be perfect in everyone’s eyes. You actually gain some breathing room to live your life and make mistakes and sometimes stumble along the way til you find the path that is right for you! Not someone else’s path or walking in someone else’s shoes to live their dreams for them.

Life is to be lived and not a spectator sport. That means you will make mistakes. You will look back at some parts of your life and its okay to feel embarrassed about things that you did in your youth. That is what’s called growth. You acknowledge the mistakes, move on and don’t keep beating yourself up for things that are in the past. You might know how to handle those situations now in the present or not. If not you, find someone who does and learn from them. Either way this is growth!

If we never had change we would just stagnate and die. That’s how a species goes extinct. When you live up to other Peoples standards, which can be stressful and sometimes an impossible task to master. There is a trade-off! Are you starting to lose yourself as a person or even your soul to be someone you’re not? It is our imperfections that make us stand out from others be it good or bad. When you actually start to make peace with who you are as a person. You start become more calm. You can still change the things that you would like to tweak about yourself within reason.

This is growth, when you come to terms with faults and strengths. All of us have both light and dark so to speak. It is what makes us whole. You can temper some of your traits that you consider undesirable by allowing yourself to play more. What do I mean by that. If you have a temper, you allow yourself to express yourself in healthy ways so you don’t explode later in a work environment. Some people allow themselves to express this in sports, while others use journaling as an outlet. Some choose to talk to a therapist. This allows them to be who they are while learning tools of healthy expression.

In most current work environments there can be bosses that are very antagonistic. Where if you really said what was on your mind you might lose your job. One way is to right down everything you’d like to say to this person’s face. One it allows you to express yourself in a healthy way. If you have a fire pit or wood fireplace, you can burn what you’ve written as a way to release it.

Over time we start to face our dark side, this is not a bad thing. It is actually very healthy. It allows us to see ourselves in a new light without judging ourselves. By allowing it out to play. It allows us to be in control of our dark side without it controlling us. It starts to soften some of those rough edges that we didn’t like before. It is our dark side that might have given us protection when we were a child. It might be a part of us that was rejected or judged as a child.

When we actually, explore this side of ourselves without judgement. We start to see where it originally came from. We can decide, if we want to make changes as an adult or if we’re fine with it as is? It can be very comforting to allow it to just be. This is about your personal journey and not someone elses. It might feel good to yell and scream in your car about something or someone who has upset you. It’s when we hold all of our emotions in and never allow ourselves feel that we start to make ourselves sick.

In some regards, we’re surrounded by fake people with their politically correct bullshit and this fluffy bunny shit about sending it love. If you don’t feel like doing any of that shit. Don’t there is no karma for actually having feelings and emotions. The only person you have to please is yourself. This culture of acting like a martyr is so restrictive it can feel like you’re wearing a straight jacket.

When you start to except yourself for who you are! You will start to find more calm in your life. You don’t get brownie points for keeping antagonistic people in your life. The last thing you need is people who are constantly picking you apart. Especially when they refuse to actually look at their own lives. By starting to live your life on your own standards you be taking steps to allow yourself to heal and grow as a person.

Penny J. (MN, USA)

Raven Hawke, Llc

http://www.ravenhawke.net

info@ravenhawke.net

What will you be giving up?

This time of year people think of it as a time to make a sacrifice in their life. Why not think of it as a time to purge the things or people who you’ve out grown. It might be a time to stop allowing people to dump their drama all over your life.

Yes, life happens and there are unexpected events that occur beyond our control. There are also cause and effect dramas that are not beyond Peoples control too. Instead of trying to solve everyone’s problems. See if they can’t start learning from their mistakes. These are the one’s that they caused all by themselves.

Think of it almost as parenting skills to allow a person to find their own solutions on their own journey in life. Sometimes life gets really dirty and messy too. No one learns anything when people are constantly rescuing them from themselves.

This is not to say that you shouldn’t be emotionally supportive when life throws a person a curve ball that no one expected. Sometimes these lessons are a test to help a person learn new skills or to make them emotionally stronger to survive a future event.  This does not mean the person is a bad person and that’s why these things happened to them.

Just remember everything that you’ve learned is never a waste of time. You will use it in some capacity in the future to help yourself or others.

Sometimes it companies or services that we’re forced to use that are causing us unnecessary stress and drama. If it’s a company that you work for? Maybe its time to look for a different position either inside or outside of that company. If it’s a service, you always have the right to refuse to use it. There is nothing worse than a service that consistently is not meeting it’s promises.

Caller Id like voice mail is designed as a tool to weed out unnecessary calls. Weed out is the key word here. If your goal is to have more peace in your life your going to have to weed that garden sometime. You will be amazed at how much more peaceful and enjoyable your life becomes.

Penny J (MN, USA)

Winners or the Losers

The candidates have just begun their speaking circuit. It will be very interesting to see whose telling the truth and who are the liars? As for the Winners or the Losers? Time will tell. It’s more than who wins the election; its about the following consequences of those wins for they will affect all of our daily lives.

Most of us are tired of seeing our country turned into a third world country because of the greedy intentions of large corporations and banks. This corruption took place in the early 20th century and again in the early 21st century. A lot of the players are the same. The twisted reward for bad behavior shows in our countries corruption. Congress passing through bills with their own personal agenda.

Soon the cracks will become too deep to ever repair the damage thats been done. Too many people with personal agendas and none of them serving the people that they’ve sworen to protect. These broken contracts will be used to bring justice to the masses. The People will demand Justice. Here’s the funny thing about Justice. Some think it only comes in the Court Room.

Others know better! Justice is a living thing! It remembers and always keeps score. It is part of the Universe! Both are very much alive! When the masses suffer! Those cries don’t go unheard. For some it will be a quick end, others the suffering for what they’ve done will be a long and drawn out end. That is how Justice works!

Those assets of the greedy will be seized as payment due to the masses. After all why should Tyrants profit from their crimes. It will be very interesting the outcome after all the rubble has cleared.

Penny J (MN, USA)

Stop Chasing Someone Else’s Dream

I had a client who wanted to be wealthy. I asked him what would that look like? Right away he assumed that it had to be the big house or fast cars and lots of money. When he started to think about it, he started to realized that it might look different for each person. He’d never really given it much thought. It was like an abstract thought that you just toss around carelessly.

When we started to nail it down, it was a certain amount of money that would actually make him feel wealthy or successful.  I say this because wealth looks different for each person. I have done parties for people in my mind would be considered wealthy, but next to a billionaire would not. It’s all relative to your personal experience. Actually a couple of these people in this group, tried the Corporate route and found out that it made them miserable. One of those people found that he actually like to teach and coach children. That was what made his soul sing and brought him happiness.

The beautiful part about this group was that even though their friends found happiness in different ways. These friends stayed true to each other. If there was a bridal shower. They might use the friend’s house to have the party, but the friends that could financially afford to pay for the catering did so. No one was using each other. These friends stayed friends because of their friendships not over money.

I think it’s so easy to assume things about people without knowing the facts. I see this with people who are narrow-minded. I say narrow-minded, because not all people who are poor think this way. There is a huge differences in the churches these people go to as well. The churches, temples, (other religious types) that people who have wealth go to support the idea that the highest honor you can show your creator is to be successful and wealthy and that poverty is a sin.

People that go to churches in areas that have high poverty will be very shocked by the statement above. That’s because their churches like to harp on the evils of money and try their very best to keep the people in their community in poverty. This is why the wealthy stay wealthy in their thoughts and deeds. Totally different mind-set. When I was taking my prosperity course, I found this very obvious in the books I was required to read. I was very shocked when it said in black and white that poverty was a sin and that if you were showing proper respect to your creator you should try to be the very best you could be by being happy and successful and wealthy.

Here is where Happy, Successful and Wealthy are open to interpretation. This is not to compare you to someone else. This is to compare you only to yourself. When you chase someone else’s dream, you will never win or be happy. When you chase your own dream, you will find that somethings that you thought would make you happy might not. You then change course til you find out what does make you happy. This is what is known as Success! The wealth thing is open to interpretation, one person might be happy living on 50K a year. Another might need 150K a year and still another 3 Million?

When you actually get a life of your own, you stop caring about other people and how they live. You get clearer about what makes you happy, your goals and dreams and what does success look like to you. You start to make a plan on how to obtain those goals. You start to think about getting a mentor that has succeeded in what you’re trying to accomplish so you don’t have to reinvent the wheel.

You get a support group that understands your dreams and doesn’t try to tear you or your dreams down. Mastermind groups are great for this. This is how one begins to make one’s dream a reality! You are not put on this planet to live out someone elses dream either. If you choose to be a martyr then that’s your choice. Life is for living!

Penny J. (MN, USA)

Raven Hawke, Llc

www.ravenhawke.net

info@ravenhawke.net

What is Distance Healing

Your probably thinking, how can that be real? Well it is, it gets into shit called zero point (Physics) and yes Physicists get this shit! I do distance healing all the time. I do it for our planet, our air and the large bodies of water on this planet.

When I do distance healing for the planet or the earth. It is a form of distance healing. When I do it for property, I call it distance property healing. I remove stuck energy or trauma that has happened on property (land) or a building. People being murdered is an example of trauma that can happen to land or a building. Not pleasant stuff and will make a place feel very uncomfortable.

I have done distance healing for people. Each person is different, so it will feel different for each person. Some people will feel the energy like a blanket of warmth, some will feel it like a tingling sensation and others will feel it in another way. It is a way to remove blockages from the person’s energy field or stuck energy. It can also repair tears in a person’s Auric field.

When my aunt was told that she might have to be on a catheter for the rest of her life. After her doctor allowed her to become septic from a liposuction procedure. When she wasn’t able to go to the bathroom, she was rushed to the hospital where they had her on a catheter.

I started working on her long distance twice a month. I focused on the area where she was injured. She lives in California and I’m in Minnesota. Distance healing can be done, no matter how far away the person is. She was off the catheter before the six months was up. I have sent her healing numerous times for different issues.  Each time I’ve sent her healing, she can feel it at exactly the same time I start working on her.

Each person’s experience is different, base on what their souls journey is. If a person has cancer and if that is meant to be they’re way of an exit point from this life. Then no amount of healing can stop it.

I have studied many healing modalities. I have a MS in Para Psychic Science from the American Institute of Holistic Theology.

Penny J. (MN, USA)

Raven Hawke, Llc

www.ravenhawke.net

info@ravenhawke.net

Clearing Property

I’ve had opportunities to shift energy of properties that have felt heavy.  A lot of the time, it’s taken less than the 30 days. I check in with the owners of the properties to see how the energy feels each day. One property had Native Americans that had died on the property when there were warring tribes on it. It took about three days to make the final shift on the land and the house.

Another property had some energy that was accumulating after several people had left this property. Even though the people had left some of their energy was still hanging out and drawing some negative entities. I checked in with the owner of the property daily and there was a noticeable difference each day.

Rental property can also be changed. People that have a lot of drama in their personal lives usually flock to energy that feels more heavy. People that are more in control of their lives, will be repelled by heavy energy. They won’t know what it is about the rental, they’ll just know they don’t like it. Same for people with Drama, they don’t like properties that have energy that feel really light. They won’t know what it is but they won’t like the rental.

If you’re a landlord, you might want to decide what kind of tenants you want to draw to your properties. If your properties have had a lot of violence and you don’t want to keep drawing that type of tenant. Energy can be shifted to lift out this energy. It might take 30 days or less depending on how much energy has accumulated.

It’s not uncommon for energy to hang out after the residents have left a property. This can effect a property being able to sell quickly or getting a property to rent.  Since I feel and read energy, it is very easy for me to do distance clearing on the property in question. I don’t have to physically go to the property. The energy will start to feel lighter and more airy. People usually notice that they feel less drained and have more energy.

Penny J.  (MN, USA)

Raven Hawke, Llc

www.ravenhawke.net

Info@ravenhawke.net