When did the money or prosperity dry up in your life? Was it when you were a child? Teen? Adult? Did you start to shut it down when you met a person? All of us are born into prosperity. It’s our birthright, the Universe doesn’t pick and choose who to dole that out to. You can be born into a family that isn’t prosperous. When did people start taking away your money. Pay close attention to this question. It has meaning. Money is energy and in this time it is power. It is a form of your personal power.
It’s no accident, that abusers target anything that means personal empowerment for you. This can happen in the family dynamics or personal relationships. Sometimes both. Psychology teaches us that abusers, beat down their victims mentally, physically and emotionally. Spirit has been on me to write this, it was a matter of what exactly to write and how. Many victims leave abusive relationships, be they family or work. It usually comes down to what is the last straw? What line is being crossed and then they will find the will power and strength that they never knew they had.
Sometimes its about having a good therapist on the sidelines to cheer you on. It can finally give you the strength to believe in yourself. When you start to take back your personal power the Universe will start to help you more and more. It will give you bread crumbs at first. If you can listen carefully. The Universe does not shout, it whispers after all you have free will. It will give you subtle nudges. People will give or offer things to you. You just have to be open to receiving. It will also let you know who has agendas and who does not.
Yes, there actually are people in this world who offer things to people with no strings attached. Hard to believe, isn’t it! Just as you give to people who you truly want to give too. This is not about guilt! If you have someone asking for a handout and you don’t want to give to them. DON’T! It’s being true to yourself. This is not about shaming or guilting. Churches are very good at manipulation, they’ve had lots of practice. Don’t let anyone guilt or shame you. Once you take back your personal power, you become stronger as an individual. You become self-confident, you stop listening to gossip that is destructive to another person and yourself. You start to look at what you can create for yourself.
When you start to allow yourself to receive great things start to open up for you. Opportunities, meeting great people and your friends will change; because your starting to grow as a person. The key is to get rid of people who like to tear you down even if their family. Start taking those classes that you’ve always wanted to take. Even if its only baby steps. By changing and growing you bring in new experiences that make you a much better person. It is about balancing the giving and receiving. If you’ve done all that, but your still going through hell. It’s not necessarily karma. It’s about finding out, when you started to shut down your prosperity.
We shut down our prosperity, out of self-preservation sometimes. We might be surrounded by jealous and petty people who get off on picking apart other people. This is true if you always found money or things just always fell into your lap without any effort. When did that start to change for you?
Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc