Embracing Your Dark Side

Sounds like a movie, doesn’t it! Sometimes, when you’re not feeling in a nice mood. Just embrace it. This is usually a result of stuffing down all those things you wanted to say to a person that deserved it at the time it happened. Unfortunately, we are surrounded by people who like to point fingers and not look at their own shit. I call this not having a life. These are the people we explode on when we’ve had all that we’re going to take. They will look at you as though your crazy and play the victim.

I also call this a result of not letting your inner child play. This is part of your strength, that says enough is enough. When a lack of respect and boundaries is constantly experienced there comes a breaking point. When you start exercising boundaries you will find that these outbursts start to become less frequent. In our PC society, of sterilizing everything and censoring other people. It has become this monster for creating more of these situations.

If more people would just be honest with their feelings and emotions and messy as they are! If people don’t like messes, certainly don’t engage in finger-pointing. That mirror might come snapping back into place and show that finger pointing right back at yourself. While your embracing the dark side, let it say everything its wanted to say if the person is still alive. If not, then write a letter and put everything in it. No matter how bad and then when your done, burn it. If you can’t say things to the living person because your afraid of the fall out, than write it all out and burn it.

Penny J.

Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)

info@ravenhawke.net

http://www.ravenhawke.net

 

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Only Crazy Need Apply

When did the World become so over run with Narcists. All of these people are crazy, yet they’re making decision that affect our lives. One has to wonder why people aren’t making more noise. The boundary buttons are being pushed and the lies are coming out one by one. Each day is more shocking than the last. This is better than TV, but what are they hiding by sprinkling these morsels.

Oh the scandals, the mystery will be if the Justices will actually have the back bone to prosecute these people. Will Liberty actually be won for its citizens and the tyrants be locked away? Many chess pieces and many moves. Will there be a check-mate? Will the laws against traitors be carried out. It’s time to dust off those old laws and put them into effect. They were written into law for a reason. These situations had played out in the past with other Govt; which is why these laws were created in the first place.

Will the legal system start to clean house as well. It’s long past time for the corruption to end. It’s so last 200 Century. We say we’re civilized and yet the opposite seems to be true. After all what civilized race would try to repeatedly strip its citizens of their constitutional rights; like the land owners of the past in the old master serf time. It’s time for the big unveiling of all the players.

Penny J. (MN, USA)

Raven Hawke, Llc

http://www.ravenhawke.net

info@ravenhawke.net

 

Getting Back Our Sanity

When you’ve had enough of crazy, and decided to take back your life. You can start with baby steps. You can either look at the controlling people in your life or the people who are a pain in the ass in your life. They usually end up being the same.

Turn off the news be it cable, computer, tv or radio. You’ll feel much better and actually able to do more in your life. No one needs portable instant stress in their life. Most of you have probably never allowed your home to be totally silent. It might feel strange at first but once you do it. You’ll be amazed at how much calmer you will feel. ¬†You will feel your shoulders and breathing relax more.

Your probably thinking that there is no possible way to get rid of those annoying people in your life. That little invention of caller id, voice mail or answering machine is the answer to those problems. Nothing wrong with screening your calls. It encourages the to move on to someone else or to actually work on getting a life of their own.

Boundaries are not just for land or homes. When you teach people boundaries, you are teaching them respect. You are telling them that you are not a door mat to be walked all over. You are an individual that has a life, thoughts and feelings of your own. You don’t need outside advise that’s not asked for. You are not a child but an adult that deserves to be treated with equal respect.

Penny J (MN, USA)

Raven Hawke, Llc

Life

Life is like finger paints, it’s very messy sometimes. You have your ups and downs like the tides of the ocean rolling in and out. If one minute (sometimes it can be 6 years) down just realize that the tide will shift. The Universe is always pulling for you to succeed. That’s just the way it is!

When you’ve had the worst thrown at you just realize that you will see some incredibly wonderful things coming your way. Maybe it will be people, opportunities? The Universe always keeps things in balance. Just like a pendulum on a clock. The thing about life is that we get to experience a broad array of numerous emotions. Grief, sadness, anger, joy, happiness, excitement. If we didn’t every experience these things we’d be like robots, just going through the motions.

When you are going through those messy emotions, embrace them, own them and feel your way through them until you can’t feel them any more. Why? Because when you experience and feel through them and own them. You take away the power for them to turn into disease in your body. You take away the power of another person to hurt you. You also break the cycle of karma. You don’t have to come back and repeat any of the shit. Now isn’t that alone worth it! So the next time that crap comes knocking on your door. Embrace it like the best chocolate your every going to eat.

Feel into your messy emotions, like your painting a Picasso and smear all the colors till you can’t feel any more. That doesn’t mean medicate your feelings, because then you’re not participating in your own life your just avoiding it. You get zero points for avoiding life. You get 100 points for taking action to set boundaries between yourself and abusive people, situations.

When you’re at your dark night of the soul or just feeling like your life just turned into crap. Know that your about to see great things changing in your life. You just have to participate! If you have taken action, then know that something is on its way to you. Start to focus on what areas of your life are working and what do you have control of in your life that you can change.

Sometimes work situations feel like they’re on hold and you can’t move. Then look at other things that you want to change in your life. Maybe that relationship that wasn’t working needs to go? You might find that when you change that relationship that everything else starts to fall into place. Sometimes the relationship we need to change is with ourselves. How we talk to ourselves and treat ourselves?

Penny J. (MN, USA)

Raven Hawke, Llc

http://www.ravenhawke.net

http://info@ravenhawke.net