Some people think it would be neat to be a psychic medium. Sometimes it can be a pain in the ass. When the dead just won’t move along and mind their own business. Like actually getting a life of their own. Oh the things they love to mess with.
Electronics come to the top of the list to name a few. Yes, the life without a body, no boundaries or restrictions. Oh and if they were a jealous person with a body, they certainly haven’t changed their tune. That’s how the ghost world works. Still ego driven.
This is why it’s such a good idea to set boundaries when these people are alive. Gives them practice for when they decide not to cross over. Gives new meaning to meddling relatives. This is where tough love comes in handy with lots of boundaries.
This is the time when it’s best to embrace your inner Badass! Being nice and soft and fluffy will not work! It’s time to push back and kick their ghostly ass to the curb that they aren’t allowed to mess with your life. Because that’s exactly what they’ll do if you don’t step up.
They’re usually bored and want some excitement in their non-lives. They are not wise in any regards. They’re just ego! The best thing that could happen to them is to cross over.
I have recently had someone come back into my life. When this person re-entered my life. I thought we will see how long this person will stay in my life. So far this person has tested my boundaries twice.
I am a firm believer that no one has a right to treat another person with disrespect. I find that people with low self esteem do this the most. Everyone has baggage but no one has a right to tape that baggage on to another person . Women are usually victimized by this the most. They also will repeat this type of abuse on to other women. Men do this too.
Any time women see another woman start to succeed it goes one of two ways. If the women have strong self esteem. They are happy for their friend and proud of her. Unfortunately, these are the examples that aren’t made into movies. Why? There’s no Drama!,The movie industry would rather make movies about bad behavior because it’s more profitable and unfortunately helps set bad examples.
The only reason, I’m so annoyed by this is that young women entering the work force view this as normal and acceptable behavior. Which keeps the cycle of abuse going. This destroys team building in a corporate setting and is destructive to many peoples self esteem.
We all have relationships in our lives. Business or personal these relationships are built on trust and respect. It still amazes me how many people don’t realize that abuse is not just about physically hitting someone. Words can also be very abusive.
In this day and age, not many schools are teaching about verbal abuse. Some more high level corporations are; only because if they ignore the situation it will start to cost them in human as well as monetary capital. This behavior destroys the creative process in an organization that thrives on innovative products.