Some people call it being your own worst enemy. It’s interesting how their can be so many professional victims. Never looking in the mirror or seeing how they contributed to their own demise. I don’t know if it’s a lack of parenting or adulting! Some things are just pretty basic. If you don’t show up or show up late to events, work, etc. you will feel the pain! You will eventually be out of a job, not asked to attend.
It’s hard to pin down if this is just a particular generation or just a choice to be irresponsible? Yes, there can be self sabotage. At what point do you start to actually connect the dots? Most people learn for their mistakes or seeing the mistakes of others. When people choose to not take any responsibility for their part in it though; Are they really being an adult or an infant?
This is usually, where I take a step back and don’t point any of these things out to the person. It is their life and I’m not their parent. I don’t know it they just have a really hard head or they just will never get it? The Universe give us a lot of opportunities to make different choices and see it it leads to different outcomes.
It is at some point that my path will cross this persons and I will usually find that they’ve finally grown or are still clueless. As an empath, it’s really hard to watch the process when they continually fail. This is usually, when I excuse myself from the person’s life and wish them the best.
Oh how busy we get, we make time for everyone but ourselves. Get out your planner, be it on your phone or an actual paper planner. Be sure to pencil in the most important meeting you have with yourself. Pull out those movies you have yet to watch? Rent or check them out of the library. The library is our best equalizer for us. You can stream a movie, check out a movie or book.
Be sure to get out bath salts to help you detox from all of lifes stresses. Not your thing? Then get a spa package or massage session. Turn off the phones, so that no one will desturb your you time! Drink in the quiet! Find the things that will empower you. This is about building the best you there can be!
For some of us this is about spending time with the people that are most important to us. Be very selfish with your time, when you do this! Don’t let anything interrupt your time with the things or people that are most important to you.
Don’t allow time thieves to steal any of your precious time. You can’t get that time back. Go out into a park or your back yard and just drink in the nature experience. The smells, and the sounds that mark the different seasons. Fall brings in the very earthy smells, the smell of wet leaves and rich soil. The sound of loud cracks of thunder and the streak of lightning across the sky.
So be sure to enjoy your time alone or with others. This is your journey to exploring who you really are? Are you who people expect you to be or are you really a quiet person or a rebel?
I’ve noticed these cycles that seem to play out in everyone’s life. It seems like there will be nine years where everything is fine and flows very smoothly. Then there will be nine years of learning. The ninth year will be your final exam to see what you’ve learned and what you remember from all of those previous years leading up to that final exam.
I’ve talked to my clients about this too. I’ll get clients that will wonder what they’ve done wrong to deserve all this drama in they’re life. Especially when they’ve worked so hard on making changes in they’re life. The thing is that the Universe will throw the lesson at you from different angles to make sure you recognize all the faces that it can take.
Then when it thinks you’ve let down your guard it will throw it at you one final time. This lesson can be whatever triggers you. It can be things from your childhood, teen or adult years. The subject can be money, budgeting, finances, relationships, business. The subjects are endless. It will go down the list of triggers to see where your weakness lies.
When you are no longer triggered, you will win the game called your life. That doesn’t mean that these nine-year cycles won’t come around again. It’s kind of like how our weather cycles through the earth. Well these cycles, cycle through us. So the next time this happens to you, just remember it’s not personal.
One of the things that can be frustrating as an empath is the emotions that others start throwing around. Once you get better at discerning whose they are? It makes it much more easier to detach. Part of the learning curve is identifying if it belongs to a living or non-living person.
Just as living people have a certain smell that reminds you of them. They also have signature emotions too. If a relative used to be sad all the time you might need a visual cue. If your an empath, you will remember what it felt like to be around that person. For young children or teenagers, they might not even know what they’re feeling.
In our society, its so frowned down upon to express your feelings and emotions; depending on your family background. It usually isn’t until you live on your own that you begin to realize that those emotions might not have been yours. I remember having a client who was having a terrible headache. It wasn’t until I realized it wasn’t mine that the headache stopped for me.
Unfortunately, if only this was the case with the dead. Especially when they’re trying to communicate how they died. If they were dismembered it really isn’t fun. It’s only once you’ve finally confirmed some facts about the deceased that the feeling finally goes away. For young children and teens, if friend or family member has died and suffered from suicidial behavior or anxiety and is hanging around them. It can make these children start to feel these emotions.
It’s often why there might be one suicide after another in teens and very sensitive individuals. They can mistake those feelings for their own. The deceased person, doesn’t realize that they’re triggering this emotion in the living. They are usually just trying to not feel so lost. Because of churches protocal on suicide, it hasn’t helped either. Many who have committed suicide are afraid to cross over for fear of what awaits them on the other side.
This is why it’s so important for individuals to learn what their actual emotions and state of mind actually feels like. Usually this doesn’t happen until they are living alone if they ever do? Going on a personal retreat can be a growing experience. It will allow you to actually take the time to get to know yourself.
Ascension is essentially what those civilizations that have come before us have done. It is about our bodies and this planet changing! You can sort of think of it as a caterpillar changing into a butterfly. That is what we are essentially going through. Everyone has a choice. Those that don’t want to don’t have too.
It’s about personal choice. Gaia’s core is changing back to a crystal. This was her state in the time of Lemuria and Atlantis. This is why people were able to do some incredibly powerful things. These civilizations had people who were people of light. This is not saying these people were good or bad. They could choose to have bodies or not.
Things that you find hard to believe were more than possible. There was no limitation! People of light are energy beings. It is what those us that are ready, will be returning too. This is not a religious thing. It never was! It is not about being a good or bad person. It is about actually being ready for this transformation. Our bodies that are carbon based will be to heavy when this planet changes. That is why the transformation will take place. The energy bodies will match this planets frequency.
Think of it as having a strong gravity pull. If the gravity is stronger than what you body can handle it will crush in on itself. That is why there are all of these symptoms that are taking place with your body. The headaches, the sensitivity to food. This is why all of the pyramids on this planet are being activated at this time. The changes that are happening all over the globe are part of the cleansing process for this planet.
All this drama, that you’re seeing. Some of it is real, as the truth is being revealed. Some of it is theater. It is time for you to actually open your eyes and see with your heart and feel what is true with your soul if you have one. Your angels are here for you if you ask for their help. They have always been by your side.
Angels are not part of a religion. They have never been apart of that. They have been around since the beginning. They do not judge, it is not who they are. so don’t be afraid to ask for their help. If your feeling, like your life is crumbling around you. Start to turn off all the noise. All the radio, TV, cellphone and other chatter. It will help you start to get your compass.
Remember to take one step at a time and one day at a time. It will feel like you are going through the dark night of the soul. That is how the ascension process works. You didn’t do anything wrong. It’s about finding your authentic self and being true to yourself.
Fake society trying to school the masses on correct and incorrect behavior and how to think. The down grading of intelligence. The YES movement! Government focusing on creating willing slaves. The suppression of free will and thought. It’s pretty interesting that psychology tells us what the warning signs are for abuse or violence.
Government and Religion have studied the warfare on the enemy and its own citizens for thousands and thousands of years. This theater as it plays out will be very interesting when it finally reaches its final scene. It has been pretty entertaining to see the chess moves of all the players.
I think the most entertaining part is watching the News. There is no way there could possibly be that much drama playing out in a single day. It’s pretty interesting to watch them read their scripts. There are many actors and supporting actors on this stage. I’m glad to say, I choose to pick my source of entertainment, especially when the actors are so bad at playing their roles.
I’m looking forward to the to the final act. May the show hurry along. I’m very excited to see what this year will bring! I am actually getting excited to see all the lies fall away! I’m especially looking forward to all the shit hitting the fan and watching the rats scurry!
Be sure to make your popcorn and grab a beverage! We’re in the final throes of this play!
I mention this because, some people are all about using vision boards, pinterest or making a list. It all works, there have been several times I’ve made a list of things that I wanted to create for my house? Neighborhood? and more! All of these have come to pass!
Crazy things like moving a meter in the house, changes in the neighborhood. Magic and the Universe are all around you. With people setting Goals for the New Year! The sky’s the limit. Anything you can imagine, you can create! So stop thinking small! You might want to go to places that make you feel happy and excited. It’s about changing how you feel and how you think! It’s very much like planting seeds! Make sure you keep this in mind. It will make it much more easier for you to bring it forward into your life.
One last thing, you still have to take action. What does that mean? It means you have to participate in your own life. When you get push back from the Universe pay attention. This will usually happen more than once. When that happens, pay attention? Is it trying to warn you that you might not what to put your money in the money market fund or bonds, stock? These are very real scenarios. Life isn’t all about logic!
If it appears that what you’ve put on your list hasn’t come forward yet. Don’t count it out just yet. It might be it’s no longer in alignment with who you are? It might be coming in an unexpected way. Also be open-minded, sometimes things on our list are gifts. Sometimes they will be provided in another way. If you life is in the shit hole, it might be because your about to get bigger and better changes coming into your life.
When you take action, it starts to get things moving. If you’re in a situation where you can’t take action. The situation will resolve itself in some way. You will either be removed from the situation or the other people or situation will be removed. If you’re not able to make a change. Look at your life and see where else your not happy. If by changing that situation, if your able too. It will start a domino effect and other things will start to change as well. These are the easiest ways to start to take back your power in your life.
The gifts can be quite humbling, but its whats needed for you to grow on a personal level. So write out what you’re trying to achieve or where you want to go. The map will be provided in time as you start to put one foot in front of the other on your own personal journey.