There is a lot of this lately. It’s like a sick drama that is playing out in people’s lives.
Divorce has become a blood sport. The only winners are the Attorneys.
Where one spouse has to have the final win! Even at the expense of thousands of dollars.
One or both spouses using their children as pawns to get the final blow back at their ex-.
Never thinking, that while they are trying to slam their ex-spouse that they are really taking shots at their own children.
It’s like suddenly their children stopped being a person with feeling and rights.
This vicious competitiveness knows no boundaries.
Even the Attorneys get into the act. Egging their clients on so they can make the most money.
It seems like the only Adult is the Judge.
Even that can be short lived. Depending on whether the Judge has gone through a bitter Divorce or not?
It used to be that once a Divorce was over, it was never revisited in Court.
Now a days, its like people think they’ve won the Lottery. Instead of realizing how much this all costs.
They want to revisit it thinking they can cut a better deal.
Some people think they have to turn on the TV or Computer to see war.
The battle fields are much closer to home.
Sometimes it’s about hitting back at someone for an imagined slight.
Other times it takes place in a work environment.
One employee wants to see how far they can go to destroy another employee.
It’s like a sick and twisted blood sport.
Sometimes the scars are visible while others are not.
We learn this type of behavior in our home life.
Movies that we watch.
I think its very interesting that we say. “Oh isn’t that terrible!”
Until the person doing it is us.
Then mysteriously we have a number of reason to justify the behavior to make ourselves right!
we love to Judge others, but we hate to hold that mirror up to ourselves.
It’s like we avoid looking into the glass for when we do, we will see ourselves looking back.
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